Building Confidence: Stop Playing Small and Dream Big

confidence empowerment entrepreneurship growth mindset visibility Nov 10, 2025

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I’m so excited to dive into a topic that hits home for so many of us: confidence. It’s one of those things that can feel so natural for some people, yet for others, it’s something we’re constantly trying to build. You can always tell when someone has it — it shows in their energy, their presence, and the way they go after what they want. In this post, we’re talking all about how to stop playing small and start chasing those big, audacious dreams that have been sitting on your heart.

Why You Deserve It All

I've been in endless discussions about living life to the fullest, and one thing's clear: we’ve got this one life, people! It’s time we stop holding back. The dreams in your heart deserve to be pursued. Whether you're an entrepreneur yearning for freedom and flexibility or just someone dreaming big, I'm here to tell you: go for it!

Identifying Playing Small

Playing small can be sneaky. I've fallen into that trap myself, and here’s how it showed up for me:

1. Not Raising Prices: Fear of losing clients held me back. But really, it's all about understanding your value.
2. Skipping Launches: Worrying that no one will sign up can paralyze you, but you won’t know until you try.
3. Avoiding Visibility: The dread of judgment isn't easy to shake off, but being seen is key to growth.

The Confidence Muscle

Here's the thing about confidence: it's like a muscle. The more you work on it, the stronger it gets. You might need to let go of people who don't support your journey, and that can be tough. Believe me, I've been there, but your dreams are worth it!

Your Light Helps Others Find You

Playing small doesn't just limit you; it limits those who might benefit from what you have to offer. When you dim your light, it’s harder for people to find you. Plus, confidence is contagious. Show belief in yourself, and others will believe in you too.

Your Three-Step Confidence Journey

I’ve got three shifts you can make right now to kickstart your confidence journey:

1. The Visibility Stretch: Do something bold this week. Go live, pitch a collaboration, share your story.
2. Upgrade Your Environment: Surround yourself with people who lift you higher. Engage with inspiring podcasts, join a mastermind, or simply curate your social media feed to be a source of positivity.
3. Celebrate Proof: Recognize your wins—big or small. Write down three daily wins. This builds confidence and helps you see your own worthiness.

Visualization: Your Secret Weapon

Imagine your future self, a year from now, confidently living your dream life. Visualize the details, the people, the environment. This can change your mindset like nothing else, and remember—the empowered version of you is waiting.

Your Challenge and Invitation

So here’s a little challenge for you: do one thing that scares you this week. Post that content, raise those prices, or send that bold email. That's how you leap from small to spectacular.

If this post inspired you, share it with a friend who could use a little confidence boost. Remember, a rising tide lifts all ships — and the world needs the bold, magical version of you. 💫
I’d also love to see you at CEO Week, our free event happening November 17th through 21st. It’s the perfect space to learn, grow, and connect with other women who are chasing their dreams too.
Until next time, keep going after those big dreams, embracing your freedom, and sprinkling a little pixie dust everywhere you go.

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